Thursday, February 23, 2012

How do I get through Thanksgiving and Christmas without my daddy?

My daddy passed away back in February. Halloween was really hard without him and I don't know how I can make it through Thanksgiving and Christmas without him. God I miss him. Please help me.How do I get through Thanksgiving and Christmas without my daddy?When my son Daniel died that first year was the hardest i wrote him letters and i also picked out a young man from the angel tree and he received all of the gifts that would have went to Daniel i kept a journal and when i felt sad i would write about my feelings and sometimes i would just go off by my self and have a good cry even 12years later i still miss him and i keep his memory alive by remembering all the wonderful times we had your Dad my be gone but he will never be forgotten as long as you remember and talk about him and sometimes it will hurt but the love you have for him is real and so to is the pain you are going thur so hang in there and celebrate his life by living yoursHow do I get through Thanksgiving and Christmas without my daddy?
talk to somebodyHow do I get through Thanksgiving and Christmas without my daddy?Surround yourself with good people- do things that you enjoyHow do I get through Thanksgiving and Christmas without my daddy?
I am sorry to hear about the passing of your dad, i know it can be hard! You will never get over missing of your dad of course! It will take time for the hurt to go away, then it will be easier to celebrate the holidays! How do I get through Thanksgiving and Christmas without my daddy?I'm so sorry you lost your Dad.You do need some help,so seek a counselor's help to help you deal with your pain.Losing a dad is the hardest thing in life,I know I lost mine.It's the biggest shock of the life but it gets better as time passes,

You 'll never forget but you just get used to not having him around.

Always try to remember the good times you had together,the love he gave you and know in your heart that he's in a better place.

Even though my father died a long time ago I still remember and Cherish all the time we had together and I'm grateful to the lord for giving me the chance to spend what ever time we had together.Talk to your mom or who ever loved your dad to share feelings and thoughts .

I know it'll get better but mean while I think you should write down all your feelings and all the words and things you used to do together,it would help to put all your feelings on paper.

Write him a letter to explain how you feel and put it a way.

Time is a good healer,and I pray that it'll heal your pain and one day you'd look back and remember something funny or your eyes tear for remembering a sad moment but it won't hurt as much

Take care.

How do I get through Thanksgiving and Christmas without my daddy?
I'm sorry to hear this ... it's the first year that's always the hardest. My own father passed away 10 years ago, about 7 weeks before Christmas, we didn't so much as have Christmas as go through the motions. It's easier now .... it gets easier, pet.



If you're finding it's not getting easier, get some bereavement counselling. that will help. How do I get through Thanksgiving and Christmas without my daddy?
All I hope for is that you have close family who understand. It gets easier with time I promise you.
The first year is the hardest to go through. Especially the holidays. Give yourself permission to grieve. And know that he wouldn't want you to be sad all of the time. He gave you life so make an effort to enjoy it every day, Do something on Thanksgiving and Christmas that the two of you would have done together, That is how you keep his spirit and his memory alive in your heart and mind.



Hang in there - everyone goes through this at some point in their lives. :)
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